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“Stressed? It’s ok to take a break.

Because thinking about your wedding should make you smile. Not cry.”

Planning a wedding can be stressful. Trust us, we know.

Welcome to this week’s Blog,  Today we dive into the fun but sometimes stressful topic of Planning Your Wedding.   Visit Elegant Whims   where we offer partial as well as full planning packages.

We are showcasing, Christi & Perry, Elegant Whims clients in today’s Blog.

Enjoy,

Elegantly,

Patti & Melinda

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“Stressed? It’s ok to take a break.

Because thinking about your wedding should make you smile. Not cry.” 

Planning a wedding can be stressful. Trust us, we know.

In the mess of contracts, deciding which color the napkins should be, which hotel your future spouses out of town family is going to stay, and everything else that goes along with planning a wedding – it can be easy to lose a little of the excitement.

Our suggestion?

Take a breath, and take a break. 

Pick a day and have a date night (or day!). Don’t take any wedding calls, don’t talk about the wedding, and try not to think about the wedding. The whole reason the wedding is even taking place is because you’ve found someone you want to spend the rest of your life with. So spend a little of your life together before the wedding.

While we may not be the biggest fans of over using Pinterest when it comes to wedding decor, it does have a lot of great date ideas if you need help remembering what a date night is.

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Look up a recipe and make it together, pack a picnic, take it to Eden Park, Alt Park, or down by the river. Drink some wine, and just enjoy each others company.

The possibilities are endless – do whatever it is that makes the two of you happy, whether that’s rock climbing or netflix. The only rule is you cannot discuss the wedding.

Then in the morning, stretch and smile: You’re getting married. 

Have a lovely week,

Elegantly,

Meredith

Elegant Whims Assistant

Merideth

Confessions of a Wedding Planner Intern

Confessions of a Wedding Planner Intern

What I learned while hiding in the shadows of your wedding. 
Happy Wednesday Everyone!
This is a very special edition of “Tips & Trends from Elegant Whims”
Melinda and I want to take this opportunity to Thank our summer interns, Meredith and Caitlyn for their help.  Caitlyn, a student at Ohio University has headed back for her senior year.  Graduating  Spring 2016 with a degree in  Communications. We wish her all the best and the door to Elegant Whims is always open!
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Meredith a student a NKU will be with us for a few more years until she graduates.   She has taken over writing our Blog. Can I just say this has been an enormous help!   Melinda and I have been brought into the 21st Century, introducing us to Instagram, and a You Tube channel.  ( I learned it is called a Channel and not a Station)
In this Blog she is relating what she has learned from us, but this has been a two way street.
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Elegantly,
Patti & Melinda
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What I learned while hiding in the shadows of your wedding. 

Around late April this year it occurred to me that I may want to pursue something other than Stage Management just to make sure that I was in the right field.

Since Wedding Planning has many of the same elements as Stage Management (or so Google told me), I sent my resume to several different companies in the Cincinnati area to see if any were hiring.

Elegant Whims met me by accident while I was speaking with another planner. Two days later they called me asking if I would be interested in taking a position. Even though it was unpaid, I’ve never been happier with my decision to be on their team.

Patti and Melinda immediately took me under their patient and guiding wings. Using humor and sharp observation skills – they showed me the ins and outs of the wedding world.

Since May, I’ve helped with over 5 weddings, each with different challenges and obstacles that I witnessed being smoothed over. While I followed Patti and Melinda around like a puppy I was able to pick up on a few things:

1.) Wedding Planning isn’t about the wedding 

It’s about the memories of the wedding. Planners essentially make sure that all of the Bride’s memories from that day are good ones. It’s our job to make sure that she doesn’t know that the groomsmen were almost late for pictures. Or that the florist didn’t label the corsages. Or that the caterers set up the tables with the wrong amount of chairs at each one. This is wedding planning. This is what we do.

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2.) Humor can get you through anything 

I’ve always been a firm believer of this, but Patti and Melinda are experts. No matter how stressful, no matter how difficult, there is always something to laugh about. If all else fails, shrug and say “Ooookay.” then smile do your best to fix whatever situation as at hand.

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3.) Save your comments for the car.

Not everything goes our way, and that’s fine. It’s part of the job. Never let it show. Besides – it makes the ride home much more interesting, while enjoy a Coke Zero.

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4.) Sometimes people ask you what to do and you have to make it up. 

The day I got the Elegant Whims badge was the day people started asking me what to do. Apparently having and badge and a timeline makes you qualified to answer questions. Who knew. I’ve told so many people where to put chairs and or where to park their cars. The first time it happened I hunted down Melinda and asked if my answer was correct. Melinda laughed and said thats why I was there. I have since embraced my new power.

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5.) It’s not eves dropping if you’re helping people.

over half of my job consisted of hearing grievances and reporting back to Patti and Melinda, or just taking care of it myself. Guests saying they couldn’t find their seat, or a vendor wondering if they got a meal, or maybe a child begging his mom for cake and mom not knowing when that was happening. I had answers for all of those things (the badge again) so why not make them known? Some would call it eves dropping, I call it volunteering my services.

Needless to say, I’ve loved my summer with Elegant Whims.

I can’t wait to see what more I’ll be a part of this coming fall.

Until next week,
Elegantly,
Meredith Russell
Elegant Whims Intern
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